Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Am I Ok?

Sometimes I truly wonder if I am.  I am mentally ok.  This being "ok" thing is exhausting.  My friend and her husband had their egg retrieval today and I am envious because if this doesn't work for them they get five more tries...for free.  And I think it will work for them the first time and I am hoping it does.  Because they deserve it and want it so badly, but when you are unable to have a child you will always want it so badly.  I don't understand when that want will go away.  It probably never will, it will just be that itch that I can't scratch. 

I received yesterday the to bad so sad letter from our doctor, that she didn't really write and just signed.  I am confused about how my body is treating me, because I feel like it is treating me like shit.  And this scientific way of getting pregnant and it not work is like a giant middle finger that I see every day I look in the mirror and see my flat tummy.  I do feel like FML.  I do feel like I'm not ok.  I do feel like I need to find someone quick to help me with these feelings of self loathing I have.  No one should ever feel this way about themselves, and I am just to scared to take that first step to find someone to help me. 

Just kinda stuck here and not sure what direction I need to go. 

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